Building A Better Relationships

At the base of every solid structure is a firm foundation.Any structure, group, organization, or relationship has to be built on a solid foundation in order to survive. It doesn't matter how much time you spend strengthening the 'above ground ' structure, if you fail to lay a solid foundation. One of my favorite Bible verses was written by King David:
Psalm 127:1 - Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who builds it.
Foundations are designed to withstand and transfer; weight, downward pressure, and stress from the structure. Foundations when designed and installed properly will transfer the destructive forces that can destroy structures into the surrounding soil and other areas than will reduce or eliminate the possibility of catastrophe. Proper foundations are the first step to building better relationships. Let's look at four additional ways to build better relationships.
Compassion, Caring, Consideration, Kindness...
Compassion can be described as caring to the point of empathy. Considering the feelings of those we are in relationships with to the point of feeling the things they face. Patiently enduring trying and difficult situations with those closest to you can take a toll on endurance if you fail to practice the art of compassion.
1 Corinthians 13... Love hopes, believes, endures all things; Love never fails
Caring and looking out for your own personal interests can strengthen a relationship or erode and diminish it to a heap of ashes if neglected. Caring is something that must be deliberately thought about and practiced; especially if everyone is busy and moving at a fast stressful pace. A simple kind thought, gesture or word can go along way to penetrate the dark places of loneliness, anger, and fear.
It's a challenge to be caring, considerate, kind to those you are around all of the time, especially when some are angry, mean spirited and down right hateful!
Consideration - in my opinion one of the best ways to define and characterize consideration for others:
Philippians 2:4 - Do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others.
Finally, but not least in importance Kindness. Kindness is not a synonym for enabling or excusing wrong behaviors, it is though synonymous for 'love in action. Kindness can be displayed in both great and small acts of genuine love, and concern for others; especially those you are in relationship with.
Again, a Scripture reference says it best:
John 15:33 - Greater Love has no man than this, that one lay down his life for his friends
Foundations, Compassion, Caring, Consideration, and Kindness. It's never too late to start, but if you wait too late, it may be too late to finish.


Tips For Dating And Relationships

                                   Powerful Long Lasting Tips On Relationships
Dating and marriage is different than it was twenty years ago. Today, more than 50% of all marriages fail for one reason or another. Just thinking about that makes "commitment" seem scary. It seems that when relationships are faced with challenges, people quit trying. Dating is more like a marathon, trying to date as many people as possible, instead of taking time to get to know someone at a deeper level. For married couples, divorce is not biased. Whether married for thirty years or eight months, the outcome can be the same.
The fact is that relationships, whether dating or married, are hard. Things do not always go perfectly, fighting does occur, and it takes a 100% commitment from both parties to make it a success. Often when people break off a relationship, they feel as though something is missing. The "spark" has gone, leaving one or both people feeling inadequate and unfulfilled.
There are hundreds of things you can do to better your relationship. To help get you headed in the right direction, we have chosen 5 ways to build, strengthen, and enhance your relationship.
1. Start Over
When couples first get together, everything is new and exciting. They overlook the little annoying things the other person does. However, after time, the nagging starts, instead of hearing, "You look beautiful," they might hear "Why are you wearing that shirt?" If this sounds like your relationship, first, the two of you need to sit down and be honest that things have changed. Identify the things each of you did in the beginning of the relationship that created the attraction in the first place.
Then together, make a commitment to start over. The truth is, both of you will have to work on this. It will not automatically be easy but it is possible. Start by forgiving each other, forgetting the past, and then start over with the flirtation. Focus only on the special things your mate does and relearn to put the unimportant things aside. It will take some time so be patient
2. Schedule Time
Spending quality time together is crucial. This time can be with friends, dining out, attending a sporting event, or cuddling together while watching a favorite movie. The activity is not what is important but the fact that you are together, doing something that you both enjoy. People have extremely busy schedules and between work, family, the home, errands, and everything else going on, finding time for your mate can be difficult. Just as you would schedule a meeting on your calendar, show some courtesy in the relationship by scheduling time with each other. Once the plan is in place, no backing out unless you have some life and death emergency.
3. The Power of Touch
When a child is ill, doctors will tell you that it is proven that a simple, loving touch of a parent can quickly pull the child through a crisis. It is the same for relationships. Playing with your mate's hair, rubbing their hand, a soft kiss on the neck, a soft pat on the leg or giving a gentle back rub will make a huge difference in how your mate responds to you.
When was the last time you walked up to your mate for no reason and without saying a word, affectionately placed a kiss on their neck? This is not in a sexual way, but an affectionate way. There is a difference. The next time the two of you are sitting in the car, at the grocery story, or standing in line at the theater, quietly reach over and take their hand. Do not be surprised if you get a strange look of curiosity the first time!
4. Surprise
If you and your mate have scheduled some time for a Friday night dinner, put together a surprise instead. For example, if your mate loves professional wrestling, buy some tickets near the front or if they like concerts, purchase the tickets ahead of time, getting the best seats possible. When Friday night comes around, insist on driving and head toward the location where the event is taking place. When asked where you are going, simply answer, "I have a surprise for you. I know you love professional wrestling so I purchased two great seats for tonight's performance," or "I know we had planned on going to dinner, but I wanted to surprise you with something special. I purchased tickets to see one of your favorite groups in concert." The idea of you getting the tickets for something THEY like and then keeping it as a special surprise will touch the heart!
5. Needed Space
As important as it is to spend quality time together, it is equally important to give each other time to do something they like. If your mate loves to fish but you have no desire to bait a hook with little, slimy worms, or if you like to go to the casino but your mate would rather do something different, encourage each other to take time apart. Try establishing a set time for this very purpose, if possible. For example, perhaps you could determine that every other Friday night is "singles" night. This is not a time to date other people, but to enjoy preferred activities. Remember that you have to place trust in your relationship. If you try this and then drill them, to see what they did, whom they were with, and where they went, then the exercise has failed.

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Useful Tips For A Lasting Relationship

Useful tips for a lasting relationship
  • Honesty --------- Of course honesty is a must! Every single day of your life with your partner must be filled with full of honesty..Start even in simple things like, the way your partner dress, the smell of his/her breath, the way he/she look, etc. Do not cheat you partner!!even if he/she does not check or browse your cellphone, don't ever cheat on him/her..
  • Humility---------- In a relationship arguments can not be avoided. If both of you are angry and yelling at each other, then how can you solve your problem. Do not wait for your partner to swallow first his/her pride. If both of you are waiting who's white flag falls first--nothing will happen. If your partner is arguing with you and you think he/she will not accept your point at that moment, don't ever walk away!!Don't fight or shout back..Just listen.. Your partner will just be tired arguing with no one. There's no person arguing with him/her own self anyway.
  • Surprises----------Sometimes both of you gonna feel bored doing routines. At least try different things. Surprise your partner with a flowers or chocolates even if there's no occasion. It will mean a lot to your partner, believe me!!You don't have to wait for an occasion to come to give gifts..If you don't usually cook, then do it for your partner..It will highly be highly appreciated!!Make love notes, this may sound teenager like...but hey!this sometimes touch a heart...
  • Adventure----------Do unusual things together..GO zip lining, scuba diving, mountain climbing, etc..Do memorable things together to at least spice up your relationship..
  • Stay close to God-----------Don't ever forget to let our God almighty guide your relationship. Because everything will go on smoothly and easy if He is with you..


How To Approach a Girl and Win Her Love

With the right knowledge in your mind and the right moves up your self you can easily seduce any girl within seconds.
Master these tips and watch the girl of your choice swoon towards you as you throw seductive gauntlets around her neck.
Make an impressive impression. You should make sure that you wear clothes that enhance your personality, have a haircut that suits your body and wear a macho perfume that attracts any girl's nose and eyes towards you instantly. The first impression should be a lasting impression.
Use humor to make her feel at ease. Humor is an excellent way of breaking the ice and making the girl of your choice feel at ease. Introduce yourself and make sure to observe her likes and dislikes even as you make small talk. You can then steer the topic where you could safely crack a few jokes to get her laughing.
Seduce her with your eyes. If any girl has caught your attention then slowly look towards her and make sure to linger on with your eyes without making it look crude or cheap. Glance towards her at regular intervals and throw her a smile when your eyes meet.
Throw garlands of compliments. Every girl likes to be complimented. You can compliment your girl on her dress, her hair and her looks. You should compliment her physical attributes only when she becomes very comfortable with you.
Get closer. You can start whispering so that she has to cock her ear towards your mouth. She too might do the same and this will enable both of you to get closer and even whisper naughty jokes in each others ears. She might also hold on to your arm while laughing at your jokes, which is a very good sign.
Use eye language to begin operation kiss. If her eyes indicate that she desires you and is ready to get kissed by you then start by lightly kissing her cheeks or nibbling her ear as she bends towards you.
Paint her a verbal picture. Now that the physical action has commenced, you can paint her a verbal picture of how good she looks and what you plan to do to her in the coming nights. This is sure to get her anticipatory juices flowing even as she eagerly awaits the seductive future.